Phantom, 50 - Randburg

You won’t find me spamming inboxes with shallow messages or inappropriate pics—I’m not here to meet everyone. I’m here to meet the one. I’ll leave it up to you to make the first move if you feel a connection.

I'm a rare INFP-A, with a deep well of creativity and empathy. As a designer and best-selling erotic graphic novelist, I pour passion into everything I do. I’m also an active lead guitarist working on my next album, a session musician, and a featured artist on Saatchi Art. My life is full of creativity, and I’m looking for someone who can add to it.

I’m not wealthy, but I’m stable, owning my own business and townhouse and steadily building my career from home as a website manager and developer. I’m looking for someone who’s equally independent and can manage her own finances.

A woman (30 - 55)

I’m seeking a true life partner—someone independent, grounded, present, and willing to become part of my world. I hope you’ll be interested in joining me in my music and at gigs (mostly online these days), engaging in my creative pursuits, and sharing some of the things I’m passionate about.

I am very open-minded but lean towards slim, colored hair, and tattoos, but I am always open, as long as your pics are current and honest.

Honesty is crucial to me. If we start to hit it off, I’d want you to feel proud of introducing me to your circle. If secrecy or double lives are your style, please swipe on.