Seenbefore, 58 - Sandton

Trying to figure out why guys connect with you but only ask for nudes? Guys if you want nudes go visit a nude/ porn site, and why connect if you are not interested? This is not my first rodeo, I like my world and my life, I have a full time career that I enjoy and put a lot of energy into.
I am kind hearted but no fool, , I know what I want, where I would compromise and where not.
I am complicated, but not difficult, in the end of the day, we all have the need for that one person that really gets you and accepts you for who you are.
Dating online is rather easy if you pay attention,.. if you are interested in someone say so, and if it is mutual chat a bit and then go for coffee or a drink, if it doesn't click, then move on... life is too precious to waste. It's really not that hard, you have a 50/50 chance of at least making a new friend. I cannot be more direct, I am not interested in sexting, I do not send nudes, and don't care to receive any as well, because Sir, little Willy is NOT photogenetic despite popular believe, and I will ignore you if you assume I am an idiot or show that you are one,... so if you still want to contact me, please do.

A guy (40 - 65)

I would like to meet a nice, somewhat normal, somewhat solvent, real person, not a made up profile, I realize that we are not perfect anymore, and that is okay, however I know what I am worth and being single is not scary or sad to me, and I will make friends, meet new people and even consider more if I enjoy your actual company, so this turns into a do's and don'ts list, and it seems so degrading,
so basically, the DONT's
Do not expect me to finance you, take care of you or try and play mind games with me, I will cut you off and walk away,
Do not force your religion on me , I walk the path I do by choice, I am not lost, confused or in need of soul saving.
The Do's
Treat me with the same respect you deserve
I react well to intelligence, sense of humor and compatibility, make me laugh, make me dream, make me think,