{"id":2148,"date":"2025-09-23T10:07:45","date_gmt":"2025-09-23T08:07:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/?p=2148"},"modified":"2025-10-09T10:14:33","modified_gmt":"2025-10-09T08:14:33","slug":"the-complete-guide-to-safely-meeting-offline-for-the-first-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/the-complete-guide-to-safely-meeting-offline-for-the-first-time\/","title":{"rendered":"The Complete Guide to Safely Meeting Offline for the First Time"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Meeting someone new in person after getting to know them online can be exciting, but it also requires some planning. Your personal safety should absolutely always come first. While many people you meet will be genuine, it\u2019s important to remember that not everyone has good intentions. Protecting yourself from theft, harm, or uncomfortable situations is vital when it comes to meeting a potential love interest for the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This guide covers essential steps to help you enjoy your first meeting while keeping yourself safe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Article Contents: <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#bfirst\">Before The First Date: How to Vet Your Online Match Like a Pro<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#location\">Choosing The Right Location is Very Important<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#transport\">Using Your Own Transport is Non-Negotiable<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#sharing\">Why Sharing Your Whereabouts to a Friend Could Be the Smartest Move on a First Date<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#protect\">Protect Your Belongings<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#control\">Stay in Control of Food and Drinks<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#alert\">Always Be Alert for Your Own Personal Safety<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#sexit\">Plan for a Safe Exit: Your Secret Superpower on First Dates<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#afterd\">After the Date: Thoughts and Safety Checks<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#final\">Final Thoughts<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"bfirst\">Before The First Date: How to Vet Your Online Match Like a Pro<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s wise to take the time to screen the person you are about to meet carefully before actually meeting. You want to make sure the person you\u2019re meeting is genuine and not, say, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/the-catfish-checklist-what-to-do-when-something-feels-off\/\">catfishing enthusiast<\/a> or a secret villain. You want to know that the person you are meeting is genuine and safe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A quick online search of their name, photos, or social media can help confirm they\u2019re actually human and not a professionally crafted AI clone. The idea is that you want to confirm they are who they claim to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doing a quick WhatsApp Video call may be one of the best ways to verify that the person matches their pictures and that it is not from ten years ago&#8230; or from another planet. &nbsp;It will also give you a better sense of their personality before meeting face-to-face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/safe-messaging-101-dos-donts-when-messaging-online\/\">Trust your instincts during communication.<\/a> Pay attention to red flags such as rushing to meet too quickly, avoiding video chats, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/the-1-rule-of-online-dating-safety\/\">asking for money<\/a>, or making you feel pressured in any way. Look for signs of respectful, consistent, and transparent behavior &#8211; qualities that indicate someone you\u2019d actually want to spend time with in real life. By screening thoughtfully, <strong>you protect yourself while also setting the stage for a more comfortable and genuine first meeting.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Screening Checklist Before Meeting Offline<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Profile Consistency<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Compare what they wrote on their profile with what they tell you in chats.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Watch for contradictions in age, job, or lifestyle details.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Photo Verification<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Check if their photos look recent and consistent.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/the-catfish-checklist-what-to-do-when-something-feels-off\/#:~:text=The%20Reverse\u2011Image%20Search%20\u2013%20Your%20Secret%20Sonar\">reverse image search<\/a> to ensure they aren\u2019t using stock, fake or stolen pictures.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Video or Voice Call<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Arrange a quick video chat to confirm they match their photos.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A genuine person won\u2019t make endless excuses to avoid showing their face.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Behavioral Red Flags<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Be cautious if they push to meet too soon, avoid direct answers, or act overly secretive.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Watch out for requests for money, gifts, or favors. These should be immediate deal-breakers because you haven\u2019t even met in person yet. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singles2meet.co.za\/help\/the-1-rule-of-online-dating-safety\/\">Never send money to someone you meet online.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Online Presence<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Search their name, username, or phone number to see if it links to a real person.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Light social media presence is normal, but no trace at all can be suspicious.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Trust Your Gut<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>If something feels \u201coff,\u201d pause before moving forward. Wait some more and get to know the other person better before deciding to proceed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Remember that a trustworthy person will respect your pace and boundaries.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-2203839533911306\"\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- Singles2meet Middle Articles -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-2203839533911306\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"6496619884\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"location\">Choosing The Right Location is Very Important<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When meeting someone from a dating site for the very first time, location is extremely important. It can mean the difference between having a great first meeting or a situation you would rather want to avoid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Picking the right spot isn\u2019t just about romance; it\u2019s about safety and comfort. A busy caf\u00e9 or a lively restaurant gives you both the perfect setting to get to know each other without worrying about awkward silences. Keep in mind that in a public place, you\u2019re surrounded by bystanders which ads an extra layer of personal safety. The more crowded the space, the better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Choosing the wrong location, on the other hand, could set the stage for disaster. Meeting at someone\u2019s house right away? It could be like jumping into a pool without checking if there\u2019s water in it. And let\u2019s be honest, nothing kills the mood faster than realizing your \u201cromantic stroll in a secluded park\u201d feels more like the opening scene of a true crime documentary. Always remember that your own personal safety always comes first. Pick a crowded place where you can laugh, sip coffee, and escape gracefully if needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Meet in public places only.<\/strong> Meet in a busy caf\u00e9 or restaurant. Choose a well-lit location with plenty of foot traffic, preferably near public transport or parking. Choose a spot you\u2019re familiar with and where you can easily and quickly leave from, when needed. It would be strongly recommended to meet during day time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Avoid These Locations at All Costs<\/strong><strong>:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Private Homes or Apartments &#8211; <\/strong>Being in someone\u2019s private space (or inviting them to yours) is risky as it\u2019s isolated, and you have limited control over the environment or ability to leave quickly.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Secluded Parks, Nature Trails, Deserted Beaches <\/strong>&#8211; Remote areas with few people around increase vulnerability and make it harder to get help if needed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Bars or Nightclubs (Especially Late at Night) &#8211; <\/strong>These venues can be loud, crowded, and dimly lit, making it hard to assess your surroundings or communicate clearly. Alcohol-heavy environments may also impair judgment.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Low-Traffic Areas<\/strong> &#8211; Places with little to no foot traffic offer little recourse if something goes wrong and can feel unsafe. Examples: Parking lots, quiet back streets, etc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Private Vehicles<\/strong> &#8211; Getting into someone\u2019s car or meeting in a vehicle limits your ability to leave and puts you in a confined space where you may have little control. Never get into someone else\u2019s car when meeting for the first time.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Unfamiliar Locations<\/strong> &#8211; Places unfamiliar to you can make it hard to exit quickly and safely if needed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Always stick to familiar public, well-lit, and busy places like coffee shops or restaurants during daylight hours, to prioritize your safety.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"transport\">Using Your Own Transport is Non-Negotiable<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s talk about why planning your own transportation is a must for your personal safety (and sanity).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First off, controlling your own transport means you\u2019re the master of your exit strategy. Imagine you\u2019re on a date, and they start explaining why the Earth is flat or how their pet crocodile predicts the weather. If you drove yourself or booked an Uber, you can slip away faster than you can say \u201cred flag.\u201d Relying on your date for a ride? You\u2019re stuck, awkwardly sipping lukewarm coffee while they ramble about why the earth may really be flat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember that your own personal safety is crucial when meeting someone for the first time. When you arrange your own way to and from the date, you\u2019re not sharing your home address with someone you barely know. Sure, they might seem charming over text, but you don\u2019t want Mr. \u201cI seemed normal online\u201d knowing where you live if things go south. Plus, if you\u2019re driving or using a rideshare, you\u2019ve got a clear path to leave on your own terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Planning your own transport is like wearing a seatbelt \u2013 it could save you from a world of trouble. Using your own transport should be non-negotiable. Never rely on your date for transport.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-2203839533911306\"\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- Singles2meet Middle Articles -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-2203839533911306\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"6496619884\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"sharing\">Why Sharing Your Whereabouts to a Friend Could Be the Smartest Move on a First Date<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re getting ready for that first date with someone, it can be easy to get carried away by the butterflies and the thrill of a possible new romance in your future. But before you jump into the fun of new possibilities, make sure to let a close friend or family member know where you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sharing your whereabouts isn\u2019t about being paranoid; it\u2019s about being smart. By telling someone trusted your plans about where you\u2019re meeting, who you\u2019re meeting, and maybe even a quick screenshot of their profile &#8211; you\u2019re setting up a safety net that lets you focus on the date, not the &#8220;what-ifs.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s face it, the dating world can sometimes feel like a reality show where you\u2019re not sure if you\u2019re meeting someone amazing or just someone in Crocs and a pizza-stained polo. Personal safety comes first, and letting someone know your whereabouts is like giving your guardian angel a GPS signal. If your date\u2019s vibe is more &#8220;creepy true crime podcast&#8221; than &#8220;charming coffee shop heartthrob,&#8221; having a friend who knows your location (and maybe has your phone\u2019s tracking app on speed-dial) can make all the difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Always do the following when meeting someone new of for the first time:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Share your plans<\/strong>: Tell a trusted friend or family member where you\u2019re going, who you\u2019re meeting, and when you expect to return.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Check-in system<\/strong>: Agree to text or call at certain times. Some people even share their live location for added reassurance.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"protect\">Protect Your Belongings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Meeting someone from a dating site for the first time is exciting, but it can also be a moment when your belongings suddenly become extra interesting to someone else or even the person you\u2019re meeting. We wouldn\u2019t even bring this up if it weren\u2019t a real concern &#8211; but yes, people do occasionally have their things stolen or misplaced during first meetups.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Protecting your wallet, phone, keys, and other essentials isn\u2019t just about keeping your stuff &#8211; it\u2019s about keeping yourself out of awkward or unsafe situations. Think of your phone as a lifeline. If it vanishes, suddenly you\u2019re stuck trying to \u201cborrow\u201d a stranger\u2019s phone while explaining why your Uber won\u2019t arrive. Not ideal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>To Minimize Risk to Your Belongings, Do the Following:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Carry minimal valuables<\/strong>: Bring only what you need, ID, a bank card, and a small amount of cash. Leave expensive jewelry or large amounts of cash at home.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Keep your phone secure<\/strong>: Don\u2019t place it loosely on the table or leave it unattended. Opportunists can grab it quickly.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Use bags wisely<\/strong>: Keep your handbag, backpack, or wallet in front of you and zipped up at all times.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"control\">Stay in Control of Food and Drinks<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Staying in control of your food and drinks isn\u2019t just polite &#8211; it\u2019s a safety superhero move. Keep your food and drinks in sight, and preferably in your hand, so that you\u2019re the boss of what goes into your body. It\u2019s the easiest way to make sure your date stays charming and there is no chance of unwanted chemicals entering your body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sharing food and drink is caring, but when it comes to first-date safety, caring about yourself comes first. Accepting food or drinks from someone you\u2019ve just met is like handing them the remote control of your evening. Never accept food and drink from your date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>How To Stay in Control of Food and Drinks<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Order your own drinks<\/strong>: Watch them being poured or prepared by the bartender or server.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Never leave drinks or food unattended: <\/strong>You want your food or drinks to be tamper proof.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be cautious with alcohol<\/strong>: Know your limits. It may be an excellent idea to avoid alcohol on the first date completely so that your judgement is not compromised in any way. Being drugged or pressured into sex (date rape) is a real risk. Staying alert greatly reduces vulnerability.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"alert\">Always Be Alert for Your Own Personal Safety<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Your instincts are your best friend. Your gut knows things your brain hasn\u2019t processed yet. Listen to that tiny nudge saying, \u201cIs it weird they asked for your full work schedule?\u201d. Your gut is like your internal security system. Don\u2019t ignore it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oversharing too soon is another trap. Sharing every juicy detail about your life might seem like a shortcut to connection, but it can also make you vulnerable. You wouldn\u2019t hand a stranger the combination to your safe, right? Don\u2019t share your home or work address to your date when meeting them for the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Key Personal Safety Pointers:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Trust your instincts<\/strong>: If something feels off, don\u2019t ignore the feeling &#8211; excuse yourself and leave.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Avoid revealing too much too soon<\/strong>: Don\u2019t share your home address, workplace, or financial details until you\u2019ve built trust over the course of many future dates.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"sexit\">Plan for a Safe Exit: Your Secret Superpower on First Dates<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of a safe exit plan as your invisible cape &#8211; you don\u2019t always want to wear it, but it\u2019s fantastic to have on hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ever met someone who seemed perfect online, but in person, you\u2019re suddenly questioning your life choices? Keep a simple excuse ready, like having a friend calling you during the date for an early meeting. This way you can politely leave gracefully without drama. On the other hand, if the date is going well, you still answer the phone and tell your friend you\u2019ll speak to them later and continue your date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Exit Plan Notes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Sit where staff can see you<\/strong>: In a restaurant or bar, sit near an exit or where staff are present\u2014this makes it easier to get help if needed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Always have an exit strategy<\/strong>: Arrange your own transportation so you can leave at any time. &nbsp;Never rely on your date for transport.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t hesitate to leave<\/strong>: If you feel uncomfortable, you don\u2019t owe the other person an explanation. Your safety is more important than politeness.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"afterd\">After the Date: Thoughts and Safety Checks<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So, you survived the first date with someone you met online! First off, congratulations &#8211; you made it through! Give yourself a pat on the back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now comes the fun (and slightly nerve-wracking) part: processing your thoughts after the date. Did you click? Did you share the same weird obsession with Pap on Sheba? Or did you spend most of the time wondering why they were so obsessed with their sock collection?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here are some light-hearted, but seriously important tips for post-date reflection:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Trust Your Gut &#8211; <\/strong>Your instincts are sharper than you think. If something felt off &#8211; like dodgy comments, excessive phone fiddling, or an overenthusiastic insistence on private passwords, take note of it. Your gut isn\u2019t just there for digesting hamburgers and fries; it\u2019s a personal safety alarm.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Check Your Personal Safety Wins &#8211; <\/strong>Make sure your valuables stayed yours, your drink stayed yours, and your personal info stayed private. If any of these feels compromised, it\u2019s okay to politely end future dates. Safety first, always.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Rate the Conversation, Not Just the Chemistry &#8211; <\/strong>Could you imagine texting them tomorrow without wanting to hide under a blanket? Did the conversation flow, or was it mostly awkward pauses and monologues about their goldfish? This is crucial intel for date number two (or a polite decline).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Take Your Time<\/strong> &#8211; You don\u2019t need to commit to a sequel immediately. Sleeping on it helps you separate \u201cfun story\u201d from \u201cpotentially questionable life choice.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Friends and Family as Backup Reviewers &#8211; <\/strong>Sometimes, a friend\u2019s perspective is worth gold. If your inner circle raises eyebrows at anything, listen carefully. They aren\u2019t trying to ruin your fun; they may be saving you from shooting yourself in the foot.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>In the end, a first date is just a peek behind the curtain.<\/strong> You might have found a gem\u2026 or a cautionary tale for your next dating story. Either way, you learned, laughed, and kept yourself safe. And isn\u2019t that the real win?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"final\">Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Meeting offline for the first time can be the beginning of something wonderful &#8211; but it should never put you at risk. By being cautious and prioritizing your safety, you can protect yourself from theft, harm, or worse, while still enjoying the excitement of finding that someone special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Remember: A genuine person will respect your boundaries and safety precautions. If they don\u2019t, they aren\u2019t worth your time.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-2203839533911306\"\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- Singles2meet Middle Articles -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-2203839533911306\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"6496619884\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Meeting someone new in person after getting to know them online can be exciting, but it also requires some planning. Your personal safety should absolutely always come first. 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