Lush377, 48 - East London
Eastern Cape, South Africa

About Me:
.First things first — I’m a woman who knows exactly where her strength comes from. I’m a daughter of the Most High, deeply spiritual, guided, grounded… but never rigid.
I’m human too — some nights I fall asleep smiling, other nights I’m annoyed or a little emotional. I don’t pretend to be perfect, and I’m not expecting perfection either… just realness.
I love creating delicious meals, getting lost in a good book, and vibing to music that touches the soul.
When I commit, I commit with my whole heart. I’m passionate, loyal, and I love deeply — the kind of love that’s felt, not just spoken. I believe in a relationship where love feels safe, where we accept each other fully, where respect and trust come naturally. A space where connecting emotionally feels easy, not forced.
And honestly… to me, real love is more than candlelight dinners and romantic walks (though I enjoy those too). Real love is in the care, the compromise, the mutual respect, the honesty, and the way two people choose each other every day.
Looking For:
I’m drawn to a man who carries himself with a quiet strength — the kind that comes from having reverence for God and a heart that’s been shaped by faith, not ego. A man who knows how to laugh, how to love, and how to be gentle even when life isn’t. Someone with warmth in his spirit, humour in his conversations, and kindness in his actions.
I’m not searching for a superhero or a man who wants to fix every problem. I’m looking for something deeper — a best friend, a partner I can grow with, a confidante I can open my heart to, and maybe even a soul mate if God aligns it that way.
I want a man who understands the beauty of choosing his woman, every single day. Someone who never makes her feel like a backup plan or a “second best,” but rather someone he values, respects, and honours.
Leadership matters to me — not the loud, controlling kind, but the steady kind. A man who leads with love, guidance, vision, and emotional maturity… not with dominance or fear. A man who knows how to take initiative and still leave space for partnership.
And yes — I’m looking for a man in the age range of 45 to 55. A grown man. A man who has lived enough to understand what truly matters: loyalty, peace, purpose, and a love that feels like home.
If that’s you… you’ll feel it as you read this.