Jujuface, 41 - East London

I'm friendly but shy and not great at meeting new people. I have a very busy life between my job and my kids and hardly any spare time to myself but I think that if I had someone to spend my spare time with then maybe I would make more.
I'm not religious, I guess I'm more what you would call "spiritual". I like down to earth people who not trying to be better than each other, just regular people who are just here living life, doing the best they can. I detest people who lie and gossip about each other and try my best to mind my own business and I don't get involved unless asked. I'm a very loyal person, I stand up for people I believe in and I also love brandy and coke. I think I might still have some love to give, but I'm not really sure, so I'm throwing it out there and I will wait and see what the universe throws back!

A guy (40 - 50)

I would like to meet someone who is genuine, simple, easy to talk to and not too demanding. I don't want to feel pressurised or stalked, I would like to meet a gentleman with good morals, good vibes and that only has eyes for me. He doesn't have to wear expensive clothing or drive the most expensive car etc just don't make me pay the bill. Someone who is casual and fun with no hectic expectations, strong and rough around the edges and at the same time kind and gentle. They would need to have a fair amount of patience with me (because I have built really high walls) and with that I would like light showers of affection from time to time and to feel special everyday.