Survivor, 50 - Alberton
Gauteng, South Africa

About Me:
Heard the joke about the ladies looking for parking space & they equate the 'good one's' to being taken & the others are handicapped bays? Well I'm one of the handicapped, so not sure if I'm 'good' (Paralysed & in a wheelchair), NO Lambo's or Ferrari's here ladies. Just me...& if that doesn't frighten & you want to know more...I'm a divorced/single dad of 2 awesome young adult kids who are out in the world trailblazing doing their own thing. So it's just me. (Oh & at the risk of being called a 'momma's boy', my Mom lives with me) I work, I play, I pray (most of the time anyway). I may not be able to do all fun things physically, but I won't refuse to do the things I can. But if the whole wheelchair/paralysis thing is a no-no, then carry on scrolling. Let's rather NOT waste each other's time. Know it may sound harsh, but I won't apologise for knowing what I do & do not want, nor will I expect anyone else to. So let's keep it REAL.
Looking For:
Honest, caring, respectful, considerate, dedicated, good sense of humour, intelligent, driven, independent, romantic, affectionate, but importantly...loyal. If we're together I'm of the opinion we are each other's 'person' & set one another first before anyone else. I can't, nor can I settle for being an 'option' at a woman's convenience. Been there done that & it DIDNT work. I'm an all or nothing guy.
I do not want to be used, abused, taken advantage of, only serve a purpose & once that purpose is fulfilled, you move on...its just cruel & selfish. Clearly I've been burnt like this before & my heart WONT survive it happening again. So please...No time wasters.