J Taclok, 49 - Johannesburg

Hi...I enjoy the outdoors as well as a quite evening in. The woman in you're life should be seen as a gift. One to be cherished and treasured. Its when a man takes them for granted and becomes disrespectful towards them, that he ends up loosing them through his actions, that he discovers he has lost what he once valued so much in his life.

A woman (29 - 50)

Its not about finding someone who wont fight with you, make you sad or angry. Its about finding that one person who will still be standing there wiping away your tears, holding you in their arms after a fight, and finding the one person who will never leave no matter how hard things get. Life is about finding someone imperfect and seeing them as your perfect fit. Looking beyond their flaws and cherishing the good in them. The woman in your life craves romance and intimacy, its not about the flowers and soft music, its about making her always feel valued, treasured and cherished. She begins investing herself in you and the relationship with you and when you stop making her feel that way she feels defrauded. Typically most men set about wooing her and once the relationship has begun, he sits back and says 'My job is done'. Most men set the woman in their lives up by wooing them, why would he fish for a fish that he has already caught. They set them up through their actions by creating the impression they will walk with them, value them, treasure and cherish them and when they stop, they've essentially defrauded them. The woman in your life entrusts her heart to you, and she will leave you when she feels her heart is no longer safe with you.