Harlan, 18 - Johannesburg
Gauteng, South Africa

About Me:
Hello there, I'm a fulltime student at the moment and pick up a few part time and odd jobs occasionally to make a few extra bucks to go to my savings. I plan on enjoying a 1-2yr gap to do advanced courses, further studying and put some money towards saving up for education in the short term. I'm not a very materialistic person despite the above focus on money however I do find sentimental value in some items, such as my lucky camo cap which I've had for over 8 years now. I'm pretty frugal in general and enjoy an active and healthy lifestyle, I occasionally go for runs, work out regularly and play 1st team basketball competively. I like bikes and food and I'm rather fascinated by all things art though lack the time for anything more than occasional drawing. I love listening to music and prefer niche, soulful tones over the hyper popular. I have a variety of genres i listen to regularly, chief among the larger ones being hip hop and electric dance, my 'I listen to everything' (atleast twice) approach is the same approach to alot of other things in my life. I love rock climbing, all things first aid and I'm fascinated with music (beat) production. Exploration is the name of the game. My favourite foods are pizza and sushi but I'd never turn down a chance to braai some wors, real low and slow. I've been described at first meeting as being somewhat angry looking until I smile, I swear I'm just thinking not angry with you at all. I'm an Introverted Extrovert and value my solitude.
Looking For:
Someone who gets me. Someone honest and genuine. Someone who is able to hold space for me, reciprocate in their actions towards me as I do to them. I want to love and be loved as simple as that.
I really could care less about your culture, ethnicity, home country, even religious beliefs, as long as you're willing and able to do the same for me and care deeply about each other, none of that matters to me. I'm not looking for a one night stand or a situationship, before anything about the bedroom comes into play I need to learn, truly discover the person I might end up spending the rest of my life with. I'm not a materialistic person. I care more about your soul than I do your face. Somebody who understands and shares those views and values their actions over their words is the right person for me. As I've said before, physical appearences really don't matter that much to me but I've found some people appreciate preferences clearly stated so if I had to pick a type, I would say I'm into a girl with a little soul to her, some artsy flair. Alt/Emo or Punk I don't care, but if you've ever seen 00-15 goth girls (like total drama island or danny phantom) You know what I mean. Still, I'm interested in the fashion and culture, it might help make sure we have similar tastes and get eachother better but it's not a requirement. I just want you for you, not how idealised you can make yourself. Perfect Imperfections, true loves gaze can't ever see. You for you and Me for me.