Shelli, 56 - Johannesburg

Slender, petite, ambivert who loves foreign films. Fascinated by Neuro linguistic intelligence studies and intellectual podcasts. Dry sense of humour, animal lover and passionate gardener. I smoke ( for my sins of which I'm sure there are some) , I don't eat pork , I don't suffer fools gladly. I have a medical condition, so this is your chance to run now. Besides, we are all 2nd hand here. I am content being alone, immersed in anything from medical insights to the Met Gala. I don't drink but i also don't have a problem with someone who does. Yes, I miss a single malt, but that's my choice.

A guy (55 - 77)

A man with integrity, tenacity, compassion and honesty. A man comfortable in his own skin but prepared to step out of his comfort zone occasionally. Consistency, deeds over words, and a man who has adult children and loves pets. Preferably either widowed or has a respectful but distanced relationship with his ex wife. If there is more than one ex wife, there better be an exceptionally good reason. I am not here to be financially leveraged from and dont expect to financially use a man but I would like a man who can make my life a little easier financially.