Alistair, 36 - Kempton Park
Gauteng, South Africa

About Me:
I'm a down-to-earth and deeply thoughtful person who believes in real connection. I'm not perfect — far from it — but I value honesty, kindness, and emotional depth, — to love, to be loved, and to build something meaningful.
I’m looking for a companion in every sense: a best friend, a partner in crime, a lover, and someone to share adventures (and lazy days) with. I avoid negativity and drama — life is hard enough. I prefer peace, open communication, and laughter. I don’t like walking on eggshells. I believe in being generous ,open minded, and I love caring for the person I'm with ,emotionally, mentally, and practically.
I think a little differently than most. I connect best with people who understand this side of me intellectually and emotionally. I do have my struggles — when life becomes overwhelming and I feel isolated, I’m on a journey of growth, learning to face life’s pain in healthier ways.
If you're someone who believes in authenticity, mutual respect, emotional depth, I am super easy to get along with
Looking For:
Beyond good looks, I value kindness, emotional intelligence, and someone who thinks for herself. I want a woman who is open-minded, affectionate, feminine, and emotionally available — someone who wants to truly connect and build something meaningful.
She should be someone who avoids unnecessary drama, lives positively, and values loyalty and honesty. A woman who’s fun, down-to-earth, and not afraid to just be herself. Someone who wants to be loved deeply, respected fully, and cherished for exactly who she is.