TheFoolWithTheGuitar, 52 - Randburg

There are probably easier men to figure out.

I'm a musician, performer, designer and creative problem-solver. I make my living between computers, guitars, design work and live gigs, which means my life is rarely quite as predictable as it looks from the outside.

I perform as a one-man show, write my own music and spend far too much time in my studio creating things that probably didn't need to exist until I decided they did.

I'm drawn to the strange, the beautiful and the slightly unconventional.

I'm also much more of a one-person-at-a-time kind of man. Crowds don't particularly impress me. Interesting people do.

Give me a late night, good conversation, music in the background and someone who isn't afraid to let the conversation wander somewhere unexpected, and I'm considerably happier than I would be in a room full of strangers shouting over each other.

I'm affectionate, curious, quietly intense and have a fairly wicked sense of humour. I like intelligence, imagination and people who have their own inner world.

There is a darker theatrical streak in me too. I perform in stage makeup, write theatrical rock and have been known to turn a perfectly innocent guitar performance into something considerably more dramatic.

But underneath all of that, I'm actually a pretty simple man.

I like being close to someone.

I like making her laugh.

I like cooking something ridiculous at midnight.

I like music loud enough to feel.

And I like the kind of silence where neither person

A woman (40 - 60)

I'm probably looking for someone a little outside the usual mould.

Kind. Curious. Open-minded. Intelligent enough to challenge me and playful enough to laugh when neither of us has any idea what we're talking about.

She has her own world, her own opinions and her own life, but she's interested in letting someone into it.

I like women who can enjoy a quiet night at home just as much as going somewhere interesting. Bare feet, music, a good film, something creative happening in the background and a conversation that somehow ends up at 2am.

I'm attracted to warmth, intelligence, femininity and a certain spark that is difficult to put into words.

Physically, I'm generally attracted to a slim woman. There, I've said it. 😏

But chemistry isn't a spreadsheet.

What matters more is that feeling when you meet someone and there's suddenly far more to discover than you expected.

I'm not looking for someone perfect.

I'm looking for someone real.

Someone who can laugh, flirt, be affectionate, talk about the strange stuff, enjoy the ordinary stuff and isn't frightened by a little depth.

I don't need a woman who agrees with everything I say.

Actually, that sounds rather boring.

I'd much rather meet the woman who looks at me over her coffee and says:

“You're fucking ridiculous.”

...and then stays for another coffee.

Looking for a woman, 40–60.

Related Randburg Dating Profiles: