Canibrium Botanica, 44 - Randfontein

Marriage material, not dating. I am not here for anything else. God first, then husband, then me, and the kids come with me (if there are). As the wife, understand that my role is immense, requiring the support and leadership provision of the husband. As a parent I would rely on the advise and expertise of my own family friends alone unless I can trust the heart your family comes with for the best interests of the kids. I present myself to you with my baggage in toe; I am an aspiring writer and love journaling, serves me well as an introvert with extrovert tendencies. Hobbies include, but not limited to: false singing, passionate expression of myself behind closed doors (as an inspiring stripper from a previous life). I love life and all the challenges that goes with it. I am problem solution orientated, search for cause and effect by nature, and hunt for patterns in my daily life. Momentary lapses of judgement are not mine to negatively judge as I make mistakes of my own everyday. Critique me in the way you'd expect from me. Love camping, fishing, hiking, etc. I aim to please, romance myself, and serve (but not to be a slave for, nor a mother to a grown man purely by default). Look after yourself independent from me so that I can look after myself in the background. I don't do ladies night to bicker and complain about my husband, I do them preferably at home, in front of my ailing frail care mother. Let's aim to give her a laugh in her golden years too!

A guy (30 - 45)

God-fearing, not purely by religion or inheritance, but as a way of life. Must enjoy a rock solid good and healthy discussion, not a debate. I avoid conflict much like a coward would. Don't compete with me, and I try not compete with you. Be fair, not righteous. Have the insight to use wisdom leading to upliftment of a person's soul, not to trod on the broken hearted becaise that's when I'll stand up in defense, and it won't be out of loyalty or an extra marital emotional love affair. Communicate your principles in a witty and sometimes even flirty manner (but flirt with me and me alone). Be a one woman man when all is said and done, as am I. Be open to explore topics you've never thought of before, and it will be returned, with interest. Aim to serve, not to please. Aim to be of service to me as your future wife, not your open door escape policies. Be the stillness to calm the ocean currents, be the rock beneath the soil, be the voice when all I have left are tears. Be a man, not a mouse caught in a rat trap I still have to rescue before I learn what it would take from me to love you over time. Tell me about your skeletons, and I'll graciously show you mine. Be the pillar of salt in my life, not the lime in the rock to blind me during the day in my walk with God. Be witty, droog, en sarkasties, but sensible about it. Be kind and affectionate and I'll turn your humble house into a humble home for all you walk in.

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