Scarlett, 50 - Roodepoort

I love to laugh, appreciate beauty, and have a unique sense of style. I stay away from negativity and prioritize happiness. I am known for my friendliness, and I make a great host and have a sixth sense for others' feelings. I value harmony, but my indecisiveness, sometimes, is a major red flag (should I have said that?! Lol).

I am diplomatic and have a very strong mind and have a great ability to solve conflicts and build harmonious relationships. I also try and avoid confrontation when it comes to confessing love. So, it takes me a while to set my mind into saying “I love you” - suppose I am old fashioned too! I may downplay my feelings when it comes to feeling jealous about my man, focusing instead on keeping the peace. Because I value harmony and balance, I will be tearful when there's conflict or when I feel I’ve let someone down.
I may cry when faced with difficult choices that disrupt my sense of equilibrium/balance. I think I am known for my appreciation of beauty and aesthetics, and this extends to my love language. I find joy and connection through visually pleasing surroundings, elegant gestures, and thoughtful details. I naturally gravitate towards elegance and harmony.

I can almost be called a “neat freak” but not OCD.

A guy (51 - 55)

I desire and crave deep emotional connections and partnership. I want to feel seen and understood, which means investing time and effort into the relationship, friendship, us/me. My loyalty and commitment, once secured, can be incredibly rewarding. Taking the time to get to know me, having a nice meal together and putting on some great music goes a long way with me – simple neh!!!

What I seek is, chivalry, affection, support, and authenticity. I appreciate someone who can engage in lively conversations and make me laugh.

Cleanliness is generally considered important in a relationship as it can affect the overall atmosphere and comfort of the living space, so poor hygiene is unattractive.
Be my leader, give me personal affirmation and appreciation.. personal affection and romance… intimate conversations… honesty and openness… stability and security… commitment...trust.