Perrywinkle, 57 - Sandton

If you’re looking for someone to close down bars and party every weekend, I’m not your gal. I’d much rather be found enjoying good coffee and great conversation.

I’m a proud mom who loves travelling with my young adult sons, and thanks to their obsession with cars, I’ve somehow become a bit of an enthusiast myself.

Life experience has taught me exactly what I don’t want, and age has gifted me the freedom to stop worrying about what other people think of my choices. I know who I am, what matters to me, and I’m comfortable with that.

I’m independent, generous, caring, and loyal to the people I love. I work too hard, if I’m honest, and I’m at a stage where I’d like to learn how to live a little more, laugh a little more, and make room for new adventures with someone who values authenticity over appearances.

If you’re kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and think coffee is a perfectly acceptable first date, we’ll probably get along just fine.

A guy (55 - 60)

I’m looking for a guy who is comfortable in this state of his life. Independent, financially stable, emotionally mature, and a non-smoker (that’s the one non-negotiable).

Someone who enjoys travelling and exploring new places, but is just as happy spending a quiet evening at home as he is going out. I’m not interested in bar hopping and late-night partying. Not looking for a husband either. Just a solid commitment.

Most importantly, I’m looking for a genuine partnership. I’ve spent much of my life taking care of others, and while I don’t need someone to support me financially or solve my problems, I would love to find someone who knows how to care for the person beside him. Someone kind, thoughtful, affectionate, and emotionally available.

A man who wants to share life, not be rescued from it.

Adult children welcome - I have too and they’re part of the package as one is still at home.

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