oneheart, 51 - Somerset West

If I were to describe myself and what I’m looking for, briefly, it would be someone who’s opinionated, interested, passionate, engaged in the world; someone who is self-made, funny, interesting, a good conversationalist, warm, and puts me at ease. Someone who can relate to my background, or at least find what my family has accomplished impressive and not look down at my modest upbringing. I tend to be attracted to clean cut, white collar types, but again, I try not to be too picky about that sort of thing.
So, any thoughts about how someone who is, comes from a very unconventional background can find someone who’s perfect for them, either online or in person? I'm looking for ANY tips or suggestions or real-life examples of what has worked for you. above all love is the key

A woman (48 - 64)

I would like to have a man in my life who knows what he is looking for. I am looking for a Man who will stand up to me when Im messing up but will hold me when Im sad, who will be honest about things, who will be ready to talk about things and not keep it all inside. I need someone who can hang out at the house with me and have fun or go rally 4x4ing and have just as much fun. I also need there to be space in a relationship,,,I hate to be smothered,,,I watch allot of people loose there relationships because they smother each other,,,we both will have to have alone time with our friends as well as hanging out together. I am very attracted to maInly men and men with tatts are always a plus..Above all Love is the answer