Boer seun, 49 - Boksburg
Gauteng, South Africa

About Me:
First I'm a follower of Christ, then a father & a friend. I'm a WIP, always looking at how I can improve in all aspects of my life. I strive to love those close to me, as Christ asks of me to do. I live to be the change I want to see in the world, never arriving, always moving forward. I love & care for my mother & 3 boys. Working on being a securely attached man in relationships, looking for the same in a woman. If you can't take accountability for your actions & traumas and work on positively changing yourself, we won't be a match.
Looking For:
Firstly, I'm looking for a woman, whos priority is Christ and Him alone. When He is first, you will be a good woman and partner. Secondly, a woman that looks after herself, especially working on herself to grow and become better, especially emotionally. To have worked through or is currently working through all childhood or previous relationship dramas. IOW, getting professional help, when it is needed. Communication is absolutely key in a committed relationship, having the though conversations, to strengthen the bond. Conflict is normal, not resolving conflict in a healthy way, is not. This is part of a healthy intimate relationship. I'm looking for a woman that doesn't shy away from affection or physical touch, when appropriate inside a committed relationship. I'm looking for a honest and honourable lady, that is prepared to build a life with me, not seeing me as a stepping stone to someone better.