Destiny, 40 - Durban

A widow is a woman who has lost her spouse due to death and has not remarried. Widow is my current title; a title I prefer not to have been bestowed upon me, but shit happens. In an instant I went from being a Mrs. to being a widow. BAM! A new normal began. So many changes. I was not the first wife who suddenly transferred titles and I will sure as heck not be the last wife. A known fact is that women do live longer than men, which means there are more widows than widowers. I'm just a simple individual who loves god more than anything. Jesus at the centre of it all. I hate lies and mind games. I enjoy the simplicity of life. To me family means everything. I love spending time with my family. I love jogging and fishing. Every spare time I have I spend it either with family or jogging. I consider myself as an adrenaline freak.

A guy (30 - 50)

In today’s world, it’s so hard to find a guy that totally “gets you,” isn’t over-confident, has no player-like tendencies, and has all the qualities that would make him perfect. While no one is ever perfect, there are some personality traits that would make him come just within reach, or at least perfect to me. In my opinion, these personality traits are something every guy should possess. Firstly and foremost he should love god. He should be smart, kind, and repectful. He should be honest and loyal. He should always smell good. Just a simple someone who has the ability to make me smile again. I hate freaks and perverts .

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