bqjames, 55 - Durban

I’m kind, honest, punctual, loving, and caring. I can be stubborn when something matters to me, but overall I’m easy-going. I don’t seek drama, though I can handle it when needed. I tend to let things take their natural course—until I decide otherwise.

I’ve lived a full life and I’m practical about what I need. I don’t drive a fancy car or live in a fancy place—it’s just me, no kids, and I’m comfortable with that. I have a strong sense of discernment—sometimes a gift, sometimes a curse. I’m street-smart, I don’t tolerate nonsense, and while I dislike confrontation, I have no problem being direct and speaking plainly.

In saying all of that, I do know how to treat a lady. I’m a hopeless romantic at heart and I believe strongly in equality within a relationship. It’s not a dictatorship—it’s co-independence. Two people choosing each other, respecting each other, and accepting both the good and the imperfect.

I believe in working through things, communicating openly, and talking about what matters. And with the right person, there is real fire—romantic fire, passion, connection. But that only exists when there’s genuine chemistry. I think you’ll agree.

A woman (40 - 56)

Someone who accepts me as I am. Physically active — preferably into cycling, reliable, punctual, and emotionally grounded. Independent, yet comfortable building something together.

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